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Beading what matters

All new habits need help. But my new habits (especially those that require breaking some old habit) need A LOT of help which is why I had to get hard core and hybridize my two favorite helpers: immediate gratification and … Continue reading

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How to love

“I am full of hate. Will you please teach me how to love?” In Think on These Things, a school child asks J. Krishnamurti the above question. His answer shocked me: “No one can teach you how to love. If … Continue reading

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Reciprocity is not a two-way street

By all means: Give to others without expecting anything in return. Send them presents for no reason, buy their books, invite them over, go see them, take their online quizzes, “like” their cat videos, eat their vegan cookies, attend their … Continue reading

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“¡Diga Adiós!”

When you can’t get something/someone out of your head and/or get yourself cleared from someone else’s psyche… ¡Diga Adiós! Yes, “say goodbye!” In a kind and loving way, of course. Here’s how: 1. Down: Let the full weight of your … Continue reading

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Q and A: Why you don’t have to read his mind

“I just wish I could know what he’s thinking.” Why? How do you think you’d feel then? More precisely, how do you want to feel? “I want to feel loved.” So what makes you feel loved? “When someone talks freely … Continue reading

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You’re supposed to flood

At least that’s what Rock Creek whispered to me  — during our pillow-talk this weekend:)

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OOOOO-ooooo-baaaa

“We must begin thinking like a river…” ~ David Brower  Today I turned to my closest stream and asked it — how do you think, anyway? I got beauty, chaos, and “follow what pulls.” Here’s the whole story and a … Continue reading

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